The Whys

People often say it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. At different points in my life, I have felt differently about this saying. I know I have felt this to not be true at times. In those moments when your heart is splitting in two, you would never agree with that saying. I have finally realized though, that this saying is infact extremely true. I look back on all my past relationship with guys, and why none of them ended up working out (obviously) I would not take any of them back if I could. Each and everyone of them has taught me something. Whether that was learning, I need a certain quality in a guy or learning something about myself. Sometimes that lesson ended up being quite painful but a good lesson none the less. Unfortunely sometimes I needed to be taught somethings twice. I think once you realize this, looking back on your past becomes easier, and who wouldn't want that?